Motherhood is often painted as the pinnacle of womanhood, an inevitable milestone that society expects women to embrace. From a young age, girls are socialized with the idea that having children is not only normal but necessary to live a fulfilling life. Yet, for many women, particularly those who are late-diagnosed ADHD and Autistic, this journey can be far more complex, isolating, and overwhelming than they were ever prepared for.

Your experiences matter. Your voice matters. Your mental health matters. But navigating mental health spaces while staying true to all parts of your identity can feel overwhelming. Whether you're part of the LGBT2SQIA+ community, living with chronic health conditions, or embracing neurodivergence, advocating for yourself is an essential act of self-care and empowerment.

Advocacy isn’t just about asking for what you need; it’s about creating space for your whole self to be seen, heard, and respected. Let’s explore how you can confidently advocate for yourself in mental health spaces, ensuring your care aligns with your identity.

Living with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS) is more than just a physical challenge; it’s an emotional journey. Chronic pain, fatigue, and medical uncertainty can take a toll on mental well-being, often leading to feelings of frustration, isolation, and grief. But you’re not alone, and your emotions are valid. Let’s explore the emotional impact of EDS and some strategies to support your mental health.

Many relationship expectations in our society are based on Neurotypical ways of thinking, communicating, and connecting. For Neurodivergent couples, where one or both partners are Autistic, have ADHD, or have other Neurodivergent traits, these norms can create unnecessary tension and misunderstanding. Instead of trying to fit into Neurotypical relationship standards, Neurodivergent couples benefit from developing their own ways of communicating, showing affection, and solving conflicts.

For many women and AFAB (assigned female at birth) folx who menstruate, keeping track of their menstrual cycle can seem like just another task in an already packed schedule. But, for those of us who are ADHDers and Autistic, understanding the phases of our cycle and how these can directly impact our mental health, energy levels, executive functioning, and relationship with food is not just beneficial; it’s essential.